"Mom Forgets, I Forgive."  

Help, Support & Ideas

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Caregiving is one of the toughest jobs you will ever have.

It doesn't have to be at your expense.  

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Let Forgive and Forget help you:

• Understand the grief you feel and still function.  

• Apply new ideas and techniques for common caregiving problems.

• Compassionately protect your boundaries.

• Learn skills that support your new normal.

• Experience how these same skills help your life for the rest of your life .

My name is Vic.  I have been a caregiver for 14 years and counting.  

These are resources that help me survive through every stage of my mother's decline.

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Take a 15-minute drive or walk with Vic.  Hear how she turns her honest, raw, and real blunders into

caregiving successes.      

Vic's blogs have been published in a variety of periodicals.

"Heart-warming, sometimes heart-breaking stories that have

relevant meaning." -Community Foundation of Northern Nevada. 

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"I could never get ahead of the moving target of dementia." -Vic

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Did you know. . . 

45%-67% of caregivers have​

• a heart attack,

• a stroke, or

• commit suicide 

before their loved one dies?   

Statistic from the Alzheimer's Association, 2010

"I peered over the edge of becoming a statistic after the first 4 years with my Mom.   

I didn't care because I was so exhausted. 

There are valuable lessons and skills I am still learning from

this caregiving journey.  And it's these skills that are the secrets to living a full life I am proud of."  

-Vic​

"Forgive and Forget" keeps me grounded, my heart whole, and moving forward on a path I know is meant for me."    Joshua M. - Subscriber

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