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The Essentials 

This resource collection polishes up our skills needed to get out of our own way, and learn to be more patient and

accepting as caregivers. 


These are the same skills, values and lessons our own lives will benefit from, for the rest of our lives

I stake my life on the following:

  • Personal growth is stability with permanence. Segments: "Brick by Brick" & "Things To Contemplate" 

  • Keeping a light heart and sense of humor shows character while denying the pitfalls of resentment, fear, and anger. "The Comic Strip​"  

  • Reaching out offers compassion for yourself and someone else. "Connect and Communicate" ​

    Let's begin~


Resources That Make ALL The Difference

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Brick by Brick 

Does our character improve while dodging   

caregiving curveballs? 

Yes!  Build a solid foundation 

one brick at a time.

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Our members share your same grief and despair. This is a new Membership feature, and private environment to ask and answer question or concerns any caregiver has.


What are the 3 ways to change your body chemistry for the better in less than 2 seconds?

Our Founder:

  • Requested to speak at fundraisers and events for the Alzheimer's Association

  • Asked to head up "Round Table," a support group for its Residents and family members at Pegasus Senior Living Corporation

  • Website featured in Reno's "Community Foundation of Western Nevada, and the Alzheimer's Association."

  • Articles and blogs published in HB Magazine 

"I have seen her in action at local Fundraisers.  She can bring a desperate, lost caregiver to feeling heard, smiling, even laughing.  Vic has intuition and a gift."  -Stephen J, Member


Stumped? Can't find answers?  You are welcome to email Vic directly.  

No, seriously!

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Discover how many teachers are around you right now that can open your heart to live with purpose, fulfillment and pride during our

caregiving day

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Your suggestions for articles, books, documentaries, and films will be published

with credit to you, or annonymously if you wish. 

You also have access

to other Forgive

and Forget caregivers, mutual consent required.

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They are a hit!  

Members have access to

all past Newsletters

"Each Newsletter is like finding the little prize in a Cracker Jack's box!"  -Samantha D., Member  

Only $30

Full refund up to 6 months of purchase. 

I am that confident these resoures will work for you~  


A great gift idea 

"This is the only website that offers the [personal growth]resources needed to survive the most difficult job a person will ever have."  -Member

- A Caregiver's Wisdom

We succeed when we get through the day.

We triumph when we get from the day